What does it even mean to live your true authentic life?

Hey y’all! Have you ever found yourself wondering, Who am I, really? When the world around us is so full of expectations, trends, and “shoulds,” it’s easy to feel lost in trying to discover our authentic selves. If you’re like me, you want to know who you really are—beyond what others might expect or trends might dictate.

Here’s the good news: finding your true, authentic self isn’t about following anyone else’s path. It’s about exploring what genuinely lights you up, makes you feel alive, and gives you peace. This journey takes time and patience, but each small step is a win for yourself. Let’s walk through some ways to start finding you—no filter required!

1. Let Go of Perfection & Embrace Self-Acceptance

When it comes to being our authentic selves, the first step is letting go of perfectionism. We often get hung up on what we should be rather than embracing who we truly are. Remember, you don’t have to fit a certain mold, look a certain way, or act like everyone else to be worthy. You’re already enough as you are.

Tip: Make a list of all the qualities you admire about yourself, even the quirky ones! Celebrate your unique attributes, even if they don’t align with what others consider “perfect.”

2. Reflect on Your Core Values

To start aligning with who you truly are, reflect on what really matters to you. Core values act like your personal compass, guiding you in the right direction and keeping you grounded.

Take some time to think about:

• What do you believe in?

• What brings you joy and fulfillment?

• What are your non-negotiables in life?

By recognizing your core values, you’ll be able to make decisions that feel right and authentic, even if they don’t follow the latest trend.

3. Explore Your Passions & Hobbies

When was the last time you did something just because you loved it? Sometimes we lose sight of our own interests when we’re busy trying to fit in. Take a step back and try new things, even if they seem out of the ordinary or unrelated to what’s “popular.” The things that spark your creativity and energy are often the key to discovering more about yourself.

Tip: Make a list of things that excite you or activities you’d like to try. Dive into one of them without worrying if it’s cool or trendy. Just have fun with it!

4. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

This is a big one, y’all! We live in a world where it’s so easy to compare ourselves to others, especially with social media. But here’s the thing: the most authentic version of you won’t look like anyone else. It’s about carving out your unique path and finding peace in knowing that your journey is yours alone.

Challenge: Limit your time scrolling through others’ highlight reels, and focus on your own personal growth instead. Spend that time journaling, doing something creative, or connecting with people who uplift you.

5. Practice Self-Compassion

Finding your authentic self can feel overwhelming, but don’t be hard on yourself. This journey doesn’t have a set timeline. You might feel uncertain along the way, but every step you take is bringing you closer to the real you. Be kind to yourself, embrace the ups and downs, and remember that it’s okay to change your mind or explore new directions.

Tip: Talk to yourself like you would to a friend. When you feel lost or frustrated, remind yourself that you’re doing your best—and that’s all you need to do.

6. Embrace Being “Unapologetically You”

Finally, remember that being authentic isn’t about fitting into anyone else’s box or expectations. It’s about embracing all the things that make you feel at home in your own skin. So wear that color you love, pursue that dream that feels right to you, and don’t be afraid to stand out. When you shine as your true self, you’ll naturally start to attract people and experiences that align with who you are.

You’re Worth It

At the end of the day, living authentically is about finding peace, joy, and fulfillment in your own life—not the one others imagine for you. Remember, y’all, it’s not about arriving at some final destination but enjoying the journey. Each day you choose to honor your values, passions, and unique quirks, you’re one step closer to becoming the truest version of yourself.

So, let’s make a promise to ourselves: no more hiding, no more apologies for who we are. Let’s Sparkle More, Shine Always, and live a life that’s truly our own. ✨